Friday, October 12, 2007

Typical Employer Questions

When the employers asking you to come in their interviews, most of you become in convinience and less confidence, because you feel anxious wondering what kind of questions will be asked to you during the interview. Trying to make you more confident while preparing yourself for the interview sessions, we give you some secret questions that usually asked by the employer .

Typical Employer Questions:

Ensure that you know the exact time and location of the interview. Your recruitment consultant will provide you with a contact name and also a map of how to get there if required. Allow plenty of time in case of travel delays.

Q: Tell me about yourself? (Interviewer thinks: I want to hear you talk)

A: This is a conversation starter and is nearly always asked. Talk about your qualifications, career history and range of skills. Particularly emphasis those skills that are most relevant to the position on offer.

Q: Describe your achievements to date: (Interviewer thinks: Are you successful?)

A: Another common questions, so prepare beforehand. Select an achievement that is career related. Identify the

skills you used in this situation and quantify the benefit.

Q: Has your career met your expectations? (Interviewer thinks: Are you confident, happy, positive, ambitious?)

A: Answer must be a resounding "YES", however, if you feel you are moving too slowly, then give reasons for this. Qualify your answer.

Q: Tell me the most challenging situation you have faced recently and how you dealt with it? (Interviewer thinks: Are you logical? Do you show initiative? What's your definition of difficult?)

A: This is a trap question. To avoid it select a difficult work situation that was not caused by you, the options available, how you selected the appropriate one and why and how you resolved it and what the outcome was. Ensure that it is positive.

Q: What are your strengths? (Interviewer thinks: I hope you're honest, what have you got that's different? How can I use you in the team? What value will you add to the company?)

A: You are going to get asked this question, so there is no excuse for not being prepared. Discuss your main strengths. List three or four ways they could benefit your employer. Strengths to consider include technical proficiency, ability to learn quickly, determination, positive attitude and your ability to relate to people and work as a team. Provide examples and be prepared to back them up.

Q: What are your major weaknesses? (Interviewer thinks: I hope you're honest, what aren't you interested in?

What will you need help with? What's your self-awareness like.)

A: Don't say "none" - we all have. There are two options available when asked such a question - use a professional weakness such as lack of experience on your part in an area that is not essential to the job on offer. The second option is to describe a personal or professional weakness that could also be considered a strength and the steps that you have taken to combat this.

Q: What decisions do you find difficult to make? (Interviewer thinks: Are you decisive? Do you have a human side?)

A: Your answer must not display weakness. Focus on decisions that have to be made without sufficient information. This will show your positive side.

Q: Why are you leaving your current employer?

A: Should be a straightforward answer - looking for more challenge, responsibility and experience. DO NOT be negative in your reasons for leaving, positive reasons are better.

Q: How do you deal with confrontation? (Interviewer thinks: Are you strong? Can you admit you're wrong?)

A: Again - this is a trap question. Demonstrate that you're willing to listen, implement changes where necessary, but you have the courage of your convictions and will be firm when necessary

Q: Why do you want to work for this company? (Interviewer thinks: Are you prepared, knowledgeable? What's the image of the company externally?

A: Show you have researched into the firm's position in the market, what the company's strategy is, how long the particular department you are interviewing for has been around and what their corporate image is looking to project.

(taken from www1.citipeople.com)

Secrets of a successful job interview

"Make Sure those job interviews you've landed don't result in a stock of rejection letters."

Secrets of a successful job interview
A hiring decision can be costly one. Employers need to consider such factors like - " do you have the skills to do the job?", "will you add value to the organization?", " will you fit in with the company culture?", "how do you compare to other applicants?" - before deciding whether or not to invest in you. Considering you will have many obstacles to go through the interview process. We will give some tips so you could successfully pass the interview !

Research
DO NOT show up for an interview unprepared! You need to impress the interviewer with your understanding of the business and a well thought-out argument as to why you are the best person for the job.
1. Read everything you can on the company prior to your interview.
2. The company's website is an excellent resource for everything from product and service information to company structure and location.
3. If company is public, annual or quarterly reports are available. Perform a search of newspapers and trade publications for articles on the company.


Practice Makes Perfect
After you've done your research, put yourself through some mock interviews. Give your resume to a friend and practice answering questions about everything on your resume.

Questions you may have to answer
During the interview, you will probably be expected to answer questions on a variety of topics. Of course, anything mentioned on your resume is fair game, but don't be surprised if the interviewer explores your willingness and motivation to take on work responsibilities that would be new to you. Sometimes a recruiter will ask you to evaluate your own experiences, skills, weakness. You might also find yourself answering hypothetical questions along the lines of "Let's say this happens ..What would you do ?" and " Where do you see yourself in five years?"

Selling Yourself
If you think you are not a sales person, think again. You are constantly selling your ideas, your outlook, your opinion, and at an interview, your ability to do a job. Your most convincing answers to the interviewer's questions will give examples that highlight your positive qualities ( such as organization and timeliness), successful, challenging work experiences, and accomplishments that are important to you.

Honesty is the Only Policy
Some people would rather be struck by lightning than say "no" to a question. If you don't have experience in something and you've been asked a direct question, say so. There are different ways of saying no. You can say "no, never" and leave it at that, or you can say: "No, I haven't but that's precisely why I'd love this job. I have done these things which are directly related to this position, but I'm really interested in trying my hand at this. I think I'd be good at it because"

Should I Ask about Salary?
It's usually considered polite to wait for the company representatives to bring up money . You should , however, have an answer ready if the company asks you about your salary requirements. If you've done your research, you have an idea about the salary ranges for the job. You can then give a range that starts higher than the bottom and ends higher than the top.

Ending on a Positive Note
Remember to shake hands with the interviewer, thank the person, and ask what the next step is or when you can expect to hear something. Regardless of how long or short the interview was, or how successfully you think you presented your case, threat your interviewer with courtesy.

After the Interview
Thank-You notes are a necessary courtesy. If you spoke with two people, thank them both. If you have contact information for only one person, mention the other n the note. If you meet someone for only two minutes, you don't necessarily need to send a letter to him, but be sure to mention him when you thank the person with whom you spent the most time.

(taken from Newsweek on June edition 2000.)

5 law of successfull career seat

by Paul Hastings
The following is just a short summary of the necessary steps to achieve job success. A good Career Development Plan will fill in the essential details to reach the goal of fulfilling your work potential.
  1. Be prepared to put in effort. The first law for anyone embarking on a new career search is that it takes effort. There is no shortcut, although many tools can make the task easier and quicker. But the key, is to remember there is a goal: fulfilling and rewarding work that could last a lifetime. What is it worth to put in effort now that will pay dividends in the years ahead? Experts say we could change our careers five times during our working lives. Which number are you on now? If this is your first, the second will be easier if you get the process right this time.

  2. Get to know yourself. We may need to take some form of aptitude test, interest inventory, or personality test to determine our aptitudes and abilities. These are the tools that make life much easier at this stage of your life, although they are no substitute for the effort required to fulfill the objective. They are a necessary part of the process.

    We need to know our strengths and weaknesses, interest areas, likes and dislikes, work environment preferences, stress factors, personality traits, social factors (how we respond in any given work-situation), and many more areas that can be discovered in taking an aptitude or personality questionnaire. Getting to know yourself is vital to take your unique personality and character, and match it up with suitable and appropriate work.

  3. Develop a career plan. Identify your next career steps. To start off, review the studies from No. 2. It is essential to know who you are, and what sort of job you're looking for. If you don't know where you're going, you'll end up somewhere else. Define the job objective clearly and concisely. Do you need further education or retraining? Where will you market yourself? Will you need to relocate to attain the job of your choice? You will need to prepare marketing tools (resume, cover letters, business cards); do you have a current resume that describes all of your experience and skills?

    Don't forget that you are in control now. No more drifting into whatever comes along. You can say: This is what I want to do, and I'll move heaven and earth to get it! You need to write out a plan, mapping out logical steps leading from where you are now, to where you expect to be in six months, a year, five years.

    Another very important thing to consider at this stage, is whether you are prepared for obstacles. Life does not consist of smooth, straight roads devoid of bumps or corners. Get mentally prepared for the long haul, even though we may get lucky and secure the perfect position early on in your campaign.

  4. Put your plans into action. Action requires self-discipline and organization. You are embarking upon a marketing campaign, to secure for yourself a position that will allow you to achieve your fullest potential in the job market. The steps mentioned in No. 3 need to be in place at this juncture.

    Executing your plan now requires action. You need to employ drive -- prod yourself to accomplish your goals. Set targets to be achieved in a certain time frame. Do whatever is necessary to achieve the goal

  5. Regularly review your career progress. This last step cannot be overemphasized. Review all the steps you have taken and assess whether or not you are on course or off track. Sometimes revision is necessary to meet the needs of both yourself and the job market.

    Getting feedback from potential employers can assist you in this very important area. Listening to feedback helps us to sharpen our efforts and be ready for action. Does your resume impress a human resources manager or hiring manager? Are your cover letters concise and to the point? Is your overall marketing strategy proving to be effective in securing interviews?

    Lastly, are you making sufficient progress in our plans, or do you need more support? Sometimes it helps to talk these things over with a professional counselor, or even a friend. An objective point of view helps you to see things from a different perspective, and can encourage us to literally launch ourselves into more action with tremendous energy. Never be put off by apparent lack of success. Persistence is the key here. Keep going, and a rewarding and fulfilling career can be yours.

Career Tips - Salary Negotiations

this article is taken from : Advanced Career Systems, Inc. All rights reserved
by Kim Isaacs, CPRW, NCRW, Career Consultant

You made it through the door for an interview. The job sounds perfect. The manager who is conducting the interview is attentive and seems interested in hiring you. Then the question, "What salary are you looking for?" You feel your blood pressure immediately rise and your palms get sweatier.

How do you handle this situation? This is one of the most difficult aspects of the job search. If you say a number that is too high, they may lose interest in you. If your number is too low, you may be hired but at a salary way below what they were willing to pay. Some applicants give a low figure just to stay in the running for the position. Workers who later find out that they could have received a higher salary normally feel resentment towards the employer. To get the salary you deserve, follow the following guidelines:

Rule #1: Do your homework

Find out what the position pays BEFORE entering the interview. You may not be able to get an exact figure, but you can research pay scales in your locality for your type of position. Check out the Careers section in your bookstore or library. If you are highly qualified, expect to earn at the high end of the scale. Dont be afraid to call other professionals in your field for some advice. As long as you are respectful of their time, most people are flattered that someone is interested in what they do. This is also a great way to network and find out about other potential opportunities, so dont forget to send a thank-you letter, along with a couple of copies of your resume, to everyone you spoke with! Then, at the interview, you will have solid knowledge about the salary range for the position.

Rule #2: Listen, dont speak

The first person to say a number or a ballpark figure loses the negotiations. As soon as you say a number, the employer has power over you. Your best bet is to glean information from the employer to assess his or her standpoint and predicament. Have they received hundreds of resumes from qualified applicants? In this case, you may not have that much bargaining power. How long has the position been available? If the position has been vacant for a while, they may be having trouble finding a qualified applicant. If you fit the bill, you are in a prime negotiating position.

Rule #3: Be reasonable and flexible

In negotiating, you should start high, but not through the roof! The interviewer will not take you seriously and you may miss a great opportunity. Instead, make your case for the top of the range by relaying how qualified you are and exactly how you can boost their bottom line if hired. Before the interview, rehearse a two-minute speech about yourself that highlights what you can do for them. Use reason to demonstrate why you are worth the top of the salary range. However, you should also be somewhat flexible regarding compensation. If they offer slightly less than what you were hoping for, you should consider the offer and not stand firm at one number. Take into account if this position is a strategic career move for you, the availability of other opportunities, and the total benefits package. And remember, once a job offer has been made, you dont have to give an answer right away. Let them know you will get back to them at a specified time with your decision..


Good luck!

How Can You Judge a Company's Ethics?

(Very important for every job seekers to determine whether they will fit for the job or not, so they could get the job what they really want, no need to have misconception )

"Is there some way to tell in a job interview whether an employer is principled and encourages honesty, or do you just have to take your chances? -There are some questions related to it....."

By Anne Fisher

Q. My first job out of college was as a salesperson for a dot-com that is out of business now, so I'm looking for a new position and getting some interesting nibbles. My problem is that I don't want to end up having to do what my old job unfortunately required, which was to basically lie to customers by promising things I knew we could not deliver. I would still prefer to work for a startup, rather than join a huge organization, but the newer a company is, the less of a track record it has, so I feel I am flying blind. Is there some way to tell in a job interview whether an employer is ethical and encourages honesty, or will I just have to take my chances?

A. What an interesting question. Remember, an interview is a two-way street. Says Jeffrey Christian, CEO of executive search firm Christian & Timbers and author of The Headhunter's Edge ."A prospective employer wants to see what you are made of, but you have the right to see what the boss and the company are made of, too."

So don't just take your chances. Interview the interviewer. Spend 20% of the interview talking and 80% listening. "Ask your potential boss how he or she solved problems that deal with ethical 'gray areas' and see if this person's answer makes you comfortable or uncomfortable," Christian advises. "Have your integrity antennae up. Everyone has the ability to intuitively sense when someone is telling the truth, but they don't always listen."

Since you'll presumably be interviewed by sales managers, Christian recommends you ask "what they did to pull out all the stops to make quota at the end of quarter. Ask what techniques they've used to 'steal' a major account from one of their competitors. If it's a service-oriented firm, ask how often they come in on budget and on time. This will give you some insight into pricing, timing, delivery issues, and how they keep promises."Christian also suggests you ask to speak with people who have left the firm. If the company won't give you any names, track them down yourself. "The employer should view your due diligence as positive," he says. "If not, it's a signal that they have something to hide."

Finally, ask about the company's culture--and whether the interviewer's description of it evokes the actual culture or an ideal the company is striving for. If the latter, what steps are they taking to get there? Then take some time to think about what you've heard from the would-be boss. "Sit back and ask yourself, 'Does this person's values and morals align with mine? Do I like him or her? Has the interviewer been honest and forthright?'" says Christian. "Reading between the lines of what is said will give you a strong sense of whether this is the place and the boss for you." Good luck.

Q. I have what I really believe is a great idea for a new service my company could offer, but I can't seem to get my boss to agree. So far I've outlined it in a meeting and then followed up with a detailed memo, but she's still not receptive. Should I keep pushing, or just let it drop?

A. Is she offering specific objections (such as, your plan would bust the budget, or would conflict with some other project)? If so, of course you'll want to try and address those concerns. But don't become a pest. "When it comes to trying to convince management of your viewpoint, push once, push twice--but three times is too many." says Lois Frankel, president of Corporate Coaching International.

In your case, the meeting and the memo make two tries, so it's probably time to set the matter aside and make a mental note to bring it up again in six months or a year if circumstances seem to have changed. But I'm curious: Readers, what's been your experience? How have you managed to persuade a skeptical boss to buy into a good idea of yours? Drop me a line, and I'll include your comments (anonymous as always) in a future column.

So, be prepared and good luck..

This article is taken from "ASK ANNIE" ,
Column in www.FORTUNE .com on Monday, July 22, 2002 edition

Basics About Employee Motivation

Written by Carter McNamara, MBA, PhD

Clearing Up Common Myths About Employee Motivation
The topic of motivating employees is extremely important to managers and supervisors. Despite the important of the topic, several myths persist -- especially among new managers and supervisors. Before looking at what management can do to support the motivation of employees, it's important first to clear up these common myths.


1. Myth #1 - "I can motivate people"

Not really - they have to motivate themselves. You can't motivate people anymore than you can empower them. Employees have to motivate and empower themselves. However, you can set up an environment where they best motivate and empower themselves. The key is knowing how to set up the environment for each of your employees.

2. Myth #2 - "Money is a good motivator"

Not really. Certain things like money, a nice office and job security can help people from becoming less motivated, but they usually don't help people to become more motivated. A key goal is to understand the motivations of each of your employees.
3. Myth #3 - "Fear is a damn good motivator"

Fear is a great motivator -- for a very short time. That's why a lot of yelling from the boss won't seem to "light a spark under employees" for a very long time.

4. Myth #4 - "I know what motivates me, so I know what motivates my employees"

Not really. Different people are motivated by different things. I may be greatly motivated by earning time away from my job to spend more time my family. You might be motivated much more by recognition of a job well done. People are motivated by the same things. Again, a key goal is to understand what motivates each of your employees.

5. Myth #5 - "Increased job satisfaction means increased job performance"

Research shows this isn't necessarily true at all. Increased job satisfaction does not necessarily mean increased job performance. If the goals of the organization are not aligned with the goals of employees, then employees aren't effectively working toward the mission of the organization.

6. Myth #6 - "I can't comprehend employee motivation -- it's a science"

Nah. Not true. There are some very basic steps you can take that will go a long way toward supporting your employees to motivate themselves toward increased performance in their jobs. (More about these steps is provided later on in this article.)

Basic Principles to Remember

1. Motivating employees starts with motivating yourself

It's amazing how, if you hate your job, it seems like everyone else does, too. If you are very stressed out, it seems like everyone else is, too. Enthusiasm is contagious. If you're enthusiastic about your job, it's much easier for others to be, too. Also, if you're doing a good job of taking care of yourself and your own job, you'll have much clearer perspective on how others are doing in theirs.
A great place to start learning about motivation is to start understanding your own motivations. The key to helping to motivate your employees is to understand what motivates them. So what motivates you? Consider, for example, time with family, recognition, a job well done, service, learning, etc. How is your job configured to support your own motivations? What can you do to better motivate yourself?

2. Always work to align goals of the organization with goals of employees

As mentioned above, employees can be all fired up about their work and be working very hard. However, if the results of their work don't contribute to the goals of the organization, then the organization is not any better off than if the employees were sitting on their hands -- maybe worse off! Therefore, it's critical that managers and supervisors know what they want from their employees. These preferences should be worded in terms of goals for the organization. Identifying the goals for the organization is usually done during strategic planning. Whatever steps you take to support the motivation of your employees (various steps are suggested below), ensure that employees have strong input to identifying their goals and that these goals are aligned with goals of the organization. (Goals should be worded to be "SMARTER". More about this later on below.)

3. Key to supporting the motivation of your employees is understanding what motivates each of them

Each person is motivated by different things. Whatever steps you take to support the motivation of your employees, they should first include finding out what it is that really motivates each of your employees. You can find this out by asking them, listening to them and observing them. (More about this later on below.)

4. Recognize that supporting employee motivation is a process, not a task

Organizations change all the time, as do people. Indeed, it is an ongoing process to sustain an environment where each employee can strongly motivate themselves. If you look at sustaining employee motivation as an ongoing process, then you'll be much more fulfilled and motivated yourself.

5. Support employee motivation by using organizational systems (for example, policies and procedures) -- don't just count on good intentions

Don't just count on cultivating strong interpersonal relationships with employees to help motivate them. The nature of these relationships can change greatly, for example, during times of stress. Instead, use reliable and comprehensive systems in the workplace to help motivate employees. For example, establish compensation systems, employee performance systems, organizational policies and procedures, etc., to support employee motivation. Also, establishing various systems and structures helps ensure clear understanding and equitable treatment of employees.

Steps You Can Take

The following specific steps can help you go a long way toward supporting your employees to motivate themselves in your organization.
1. Do more than read this article -- apply what you're reading here
This maxim is true when reading any management publication.

2. Briefly write down the motivational factors that sustain you and what you can do to sustain them
This little bit of "motivation planning" can give you strong perspective on how to think about supporting the motivations of your employees.

3. Make of list of three to five things that motivate each of your employees

Read the article Checklist of Categories of Typical Motivators. Fill out the list yourself for each of your employees and then have each of your employees fill out the list for themselves. Compare your answers to theirs. Recognize the differences between your impression of what you think is important to them and what they think is important to them. Then meet with each of your employees to discuss what they think are the most important motivational factors to them. Lastly, take some time alone to write down how you will modify your approaches with each employee to ensure their motivational factors are being met. (NOTE: This may seem like a "soft, touchy-feely exercise" to you. If it does, then talk to a peer or your boss about it. Much of what's important in management is based very much on "soft, touchy-feely exercises". Learn to become more comfortable with them. The place to start is to recognize their importance.)

4. Work with each employee to ensure their motivational factors are taken into consideration in your reward systems

For example, their jobs might be redesigned to be more fulfilling. You might find more means to provide recognition, if that is important to them. You might develop a personnel policy that rewards employees with more family time, etc.

5. Have one-on-one meetings with each employee

Employees are motivated more by your care and concern for them than by your attention to them. Get to know your employees, their families, their favorite foods, names of their children, etc. This can sound manipulative -- and it will be if not done sincerely. However, even if you sincerely want to get to know each of your employees, it may not happen unless you intentionally set aside time to be with each of them.

6. Cultivate strong skills in delegation

Delegation includes conveying responsibility and authority to your employees so they can carry out certain tasks. However, you leave it up to your employees to decide how they will carry out the tasks. Skills in delegation can free up a great deal of time for managers and supervisors. It also allows employees to take a stronger role in their jobs, which usually means more fulfillment and motivation in their jobs, as well.

7. Reward it when you see it

A critical lesson for new managers and supervisors is to learn to focus on employee behaviors, not on employee personalities. Performance in the workplace should be based on behaviors toward goals, not on popularity of employees. You can get in a great deal of trouble (legally, morally and interpersonally) for focusing only on how you feel about your employees rather than on what you're seeing with your eyeballs.

8. Reward it soon after you see it

This helps to reinforce the notion that you highly prefer the behaviors that you're currently seeing from your employees. Often, the shorter the time between an employee's action and your reward for the action, the clearer it is to the employee that you highly prefer that action.

9. Implement at least the basic principles of performance management

Good performance management includes identifying goals, measures to indicate if the goals are being met or not, ongoing attention and feedback about measures toward the goals, and corrective actions to redirect activities back toward achieving the goals when necessary. Performance management can focus on organizations, groups, processes in the organization and employees.

10. Establish goals that are SMARTER

SMARTER goals are: specific, measurable, acceptable, realistic, timely, extending of capabilities, and rewarding to those involved.

11. Clearly convey how employee results contribute to organizational results

Employees often feel strong fulfillment from realizing that they're actually making a difference. This realization often requires clear communication about organizational goals, employee progress toward those goals and celebration when the goals are met.

12. Celebrate achievements

This critical step is often forgotten. New managers and supervisors are often focused on a getting "a lot done". This usually means identifying and solving problems. Experienced managers come to understand that acknowledging and celebrating a solution to a problem can be every bit as important as the solution itself. Without ongoing acknowledgement of success, employees become frustrated, skeptical and even cynical about efforts in the organization.

13. Let employees hear from their customers (internal or external)

Let employees hear customers proclaim the benefits of the efforts of the employee . For example, if the employee is working to keep internal computer systems running for other employees (internal customers) in the organization, then have other employees express their gratitude to the employee. If an employee is providing a product or service to external customers, then bring in a customer to express their appreciation to the employee.

14. Admit to yourself (and to an appropriate someone else) if you don't like an employee

Managers and supervisors are people. It's not unusual to just not like someone who works for you. That someone could, for example, look like an uncle you don't like. In this case, admit to yourself that you don't like the employee. Then talk to someone else who is appropriate to hear about your distaste for the employee, for example, a peer, your boss, your spouse, etc. Indicate to the appropriate person that you want to explore what it is that you don't like about the employee and would like to come to a clearer perception of how you can accomplish a positive working relationship with the employee. It often helps a great deal just to talk out loud about how you feel and get someone else's opinion about the situation. As noted above, if you continue to focus on what you see about employee performance, you'll go a long way toward ensuring that your treatment of employees remains fair and equitable.

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101 Ways To Motivate Yourself.

By: Maria Kang

I focus on the psychology of fitness and success because I believe that if you understand 'why' you want to do something the 'how' part becomes easy. I didn't get fit by reading about how to perform a sit-up. I got fit because something motivated me to want to learn how to perform every sit-up God made.

Learning what uniquely motivates you is what will make you successful in your weight loss or weight gain journey. Here are 101 strategies that I have seriously used in my years in training.

1: Write down your goals.

2: Create a fitness action plan.

3: Devise a desirable reward.

4: Set a completion date.

5: Enter a competition.

6: Enter a competition amongst your friends.

7: Plaster motivational quotes all over your house.

8: Write "Every Day is a New Battle" on your bathroom mirror.

9: Post your favorite fitness role model on your refrigerator.

10: Post your favorite fat picture on your refrigerator.

11: Type "Your Character is your Destiny" on your screen saver.

12: Type "Get off your Fat Butt" on your screen saver.

13: Practice core strength by using a stability ball for a chair.

14: Rollover and do some crunches in-between emails on your stability ball chair.

15: Buy a nice wardrobe that will fit you in two months.

16: Donate all your fat clothes to Salvation Army.

17: Moderate your strict eating with a fat meal once a week.

18: When eating your fat meal, look at the body type of other people who eat fat meals daily.

19: Buy some fitness magazines.

20: Read some "how to" fitness articles.

21: Join a fitness web blog: www.louisdorman.com.

22: Read Louis' transformation story.

23: Pray and thank God you only have to lose half the weight he lost.

24: Make a supportive fitness group.

25: Hang around fit friends.

26: Surround yourself with people and things that promote a healthy lifestyle.

27: Find a running partner.

28: Inspire your own partner to run with you.

29: Create fitness goals with your partner.

30: Make a workout and diet log.

31: Personalize your journal by adding inspirational quotes and pictures.

32: Document your progress: weight, body fat, and blood pressure.

33: Attend a bodybuilding/fitness show.

34: Talk to competitors and pros that live for fitness.

35: Ask your role models what motivates them.

36: Take a chance and email your role model off their web site.

37: Take a supplement for physical gains as well as a mental 'placebo' effect.

38: Drink some coffee.

39: Drink more coffee.

40: Date someone more fit than you.

41: Date someone who inspires you.

42: Date someone you want to look really good naked for.

43: Shave your body so you can see all your muscles.

44: Tan your body so you can see all the lines and contours of your muscles.

45: Tan your body at the beach so that people with really nice bodies can inspire you.

46: Hire a trainer.

47: Become a trainer.

48: Humble a trainer by knowing more stuff than him/her.

49: Look like a trainer.

50: Buy new athletic shoes.

51: Buy a new workout outfit.

52: Buy clean, new and comfortable socks.

53: Wear really bright colors to the gym.

54: Take a group exercise class.

55: Take a spinning class for really intense cardio.

56: Take Yoga or Pilate's class for variety and core strength.

57: Drink an energy drink.

58: Plan a vacation where you have to wear a swimsuit.

59: Read Lance Armstrong's biography.

60: Envision your workout during your warm-up.

61: Focus on the workout, one set at a time.

62: Beat yourself up with weights for even getting de-motivated.

63: Conquer your negative thoughts by pushing your body into painful consciousness.

64: Experiment on how much you can make yourself sweat.

65: Make it a goal to be the fittest person in the weight room - or any room for that matter.

66: Test your Max on pushups and pullups.

67: Post the Krispy Kreme's calendar on your wall.

68: Post Monica Brant's calendar on your wall.

69: Watch Ronnie Coleman videos.

70: Read articles by Arnold Schwarzenegger.

71: Buy a home exercise bike or treadmill.

72: Become the inspiration amongst your friends.

73: Help someone who is very overweight or wants to gain muscle.

74: Visit my web site: www.mariakang.com.

75: Place your alarm clock across your bedroom so that you have to get up to turn it off in the morning.

76: Place your athletic shoes right next to your alarm clock.

77: Place a quote right next to your alarm clock that says: "Today you are closer to the person you were meant to become."

78: Alarm your cell phone to give you daily reminders to eat, workout and give gratitude.

79: Volunteer your time with people who don't have full function of their bodies.

80: Volunteer your passion for fitness at a YMCA.

81: Look up new, healthy recipes to cook.

82: Search for new, healthy restaurants to eat at.

83: Observe the body type of the people at restaurants you shouldn't eat at.

84: Read one of Mike Mahler's Aggressive Strength Training Articles on BB.com.

85: Learn a new exercise technique like Kettle Bell training.

86: Turn off your TV and run.

87: Buy a new MP3 player or IPOD and put some high, energy, workout songs on it.

88: Buy new workout devices like a heart rate monitor or pedometer.

89: Workout at a different gym.

90: Workout at a different time of day.

91: Workout using all new exercises.

92: Vary your cardio by incorporating High Intensity Training.

93: Say a prayer for power right before you train.

94: Say a prayer for performance right before your set.

95: Say a prayer for pain during your set.

96: Say a prayer for persistence after your set.

97: Say a prayer for positive action after you train.

98: Read articles on Bodybuilding.com.

99: Shop for supplements, videos and books on Bodybuilding.com.

100: Get passionate enough to write an article for Bodybuilding.com.

101: You know what motivates you. Quit reading and make it happen.

10 Factors to Help You Stay Motivated & Succeed!

By: Shannon Clark

Success in the fitness world depends on lots of different factors that are variable depending on the individual. Everyone will have their own methods for what keeps them focused and determined to keep working towards their goals, but there are a few factors that are common to most people. By ensuring that you are utilizing these concepts, you will help ensure that you will reach your goals in a productive and pleasurable manner.


1: Self-Efficacy

This has been shown to be one of the most important factors contributing to success in a workout program. Self-efficacy can be defined as your personal belief that you are in fact capable of performing the behavior or achieving your goal.

For example, someone with high self-efficacy would have confidence in themselves that they will be able to run for 30 minutes if this is what they decide to do. A person scoring low on self-efficacy on the other hand would not believe they were capable of doing this and therefore would most likely not put in the effort to even try. Believing in yourself and your abilities is a huge component in sticking with your exercise program.



2: Family & Friend Support

Taking up a new exercise regime will require many changes in your daily schedule. You may have to give up some of the responsibilities you previously held in order to find the time to commit to exercising. With a supportive family and friend network, this task will be much easier.

Maybe your husband or wife will take over the role of cooking meals on certain nights of the week so you can stop at the gym on the way home from work, or a friend might be willing to give up your weekly night at the movies for a session of yoga class instead. Whatever the compromise, having these people support your goals will make the whole process much less stressful and easier to complete.


3: A Positive Attitude

Having a positive attitude about your workout program will go along way to helping you stay motivated and committed. When you have positive thoughts regarding exercise, it makes it seem like less of a chore and more of an enjoyable experience to you. If you remain positive at all times, even when you may not be seeing all the results you dreamed of, you will still be able to stay focused and look at how far you have come.

Being able to look at the big picture is a large step in achieving success, as many of the results you gain from exercise are not noticeable right away, therefore this requires a great deal of patience. By staying positive so that you will see results eventually, you won't get discouraged as quickly and drop out.


4: An Action Plan

The next most important aspect of any workout program or goal for that matter is having an effective action plan. You need to have the means to reach your end and without a detailed account on how you plan on going about obtaining your goals, you will have great difficulty getting there as quickly as you hope.



If you just take a casual approach to your goal, you will most likely waste a lot of time just figuring what steps to take next. By having everything outlined from the beginning you will know where you need to go and in what order. You will also have something to compare your progress to to ensure you are on track with regards to your original plan.


5: Organizational Skills

Having good organization is very important when you talk about fitness. Everyday life poses many, many challenges to sticking with a workout routine, from meetings, to family emergencies, to less than ideal weather.

You need to be organized enough within your daily life to allow yourself a good deal of time each week to dedicate to fitness and preparing and cooking healthy meals.

If you aren't organized with your time, you will find that other projects keep pushing back your gym appointment and that the drive through looks like a signal sent from god since you have so much work to take home that you can't even think about chopping a vegetable little own cooking a full meal.

A great investment is a daily planner that is large enough for you to schedule all of your tasks in, including your workout. Book your time at the gym in like you would any other appointment. This will ensure nothing steals this time away from you.


6: Intrinsic Motivation

There Are Two Types Of Motivation:

* Intrinsic

Intrinsic motivation on the other hand is the type where you are performing the action based strictly on the fact that you love doing it and find a personal satisfaction from doing it. This is more common among athletes (those who are more at the beginner levels and are not playing to win prize money or titles), and those who take up a hobby that they tend to loose themselves in.

Studies have shown that exercisers who exercise for intrinsic motivations are much more likely to stick with their workout program than those who are motivated extrinsically (to fit into a dress for example).



* Extrinsic

Extrinsic motivation is the type where you are not really doing an activity because you truly love it, but rather because you are being rewarded from an external source. For example, if someone was paying you to work out.

This type of motivation tends to decrease our desire to perform the action since we almost begin to view it as something that has to be done, rather than something we are doing on our own will.


7: A Reward System

This may seem like a funny point considering what you just read on extrinsic motivation, however having a reward system can be very beneficial. What is important is that the rewards are set by you and have a particular meaning to you. This will keep everything under your control so you won't begin to feel like you are being regulated by someone else (as is usually the case for extrinsic motivation).

By setting small rewards after each step in your plan, you will give yourself something to look forward to and keep yourself motivated to keep pushing onward.


8: A Role Model

Role models can be very important tools in any type of goal program. By having someone who you look up to, whether it is for their values, their hard work, or how they look, you will be providing yourself with a measure on which to measure yourself with.

Granted, it is not good to measure yourself against everyone you see, as this may make you start to feel inadequate and upset with yourself, but by having one chosen individual who you wish to become more like, you will be able to compare yourself and see what areas you need to improve on and where you have made a great deal of progress.


9: Knowledge

Having a good knowledge base is critical to putting together any workout program. If you yourself don't know a whole lot about fitness and weight training, consulting a fitness trainer, physical education instructor, or someone who is currently working out and has a great deal of experience with this issue, is a great idea.

On the other hand, if you are more independent, you could take up reading some quality (remember, a lot of information out there is mostly propaganda so you need to be selective in your choices) books, journals, magazines, and online sites such as this one.


10: Other Hobbies And Interests

The final factor that is important in your success is having outside hobbies and interests. While it's important to be truly passionate and dedicated to your fitness routine and diet, if it's really your only interest you will become burnt out very quickly.

You will also tend to ruminate if you are not seeing results as quickly as you had hoped since you will feel as though you are putting all your time and effort into this one endeavor. Having outside interests will help keep your mind fresh and keep you looking forward to each and every one of your workouts.


Conclusion

By taking the time to ensure you include each of these factors into your life before you start an exercise program, you will help to ensure you encounter nothing but success. You will also make yourself less stressed out about the lifestyle changes you are making and everything will run much more smoothly.


Source : http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/sclark16.htm

Balancing Work & Life - Assessing Success

To be successful in your work and life, you must be clear about what success is. Clarify your values and goals, and understand that success is not just about hard work and no play.

Chapter 1 - Understanding Success

To create a balance between the demands of your work and your life, you need to examine what success means to you. Start by clarifying your values, purpose, roles, and attitudes so that you have something to measure your achievements against.

Defining success

People often work hard to gain "success" without knowing what success really means. You may climb a career ladder, but are you fulfilled by your work? Do you have a good home life? We receive differing messages about success - thorough the media, our families, and our culture. But ultimately, success comes from leading a fulfilled and balanced life. Begin to balance your work and life more effectively.

Aiming for success

The " 3S" formula will help you consider the key factors in a work-life balance.

  • The 1st "S" = Success - begin to form criteria of what success means to you.
  • The 2nd "S" = Strategy - start to form a workable plan to achieve a balance between work and life.
  • The 3rd "S" = Synergy - make sure you focus on relationships and creative cooperation with those around you. Aim to be a team player and a good communicator.

Clarifying values

To define success, start by clarifying your values. Schedule time alone and think about what is most important to you: -

  • What kind of partner do you want to be?
  • What kind of son or daughter?
  • What kind of friend and manager?
  • What difference would you like to make in people's lives?

Put your values at the center of your life so that you can retain greater balance, vision, and happiness in every area of your life.

Pinpoint your purpose so that you have real direction,

Questions to ask yourself

  • What aspects of my life am I most passionate about?
  • Is being a parent the most important aspect of my life?
  • Have I recognized what motivates me?§ What are my unique talents and my strengths?
  • What purpose would I like to give my work and my life?

Seeing the BIG picture

The BIG picture is your overall vision of your vision of your work and life. It includes your values, goals, and roles. Invest time in developing your vision. Allow your imagination free rein and picture your ideal life. Picture the key people in your life - your family, friends, colleagues, and customers; and imagine all these relationships working well. Visualize your ideal work and your ideal leisure time. Write down the essence of your BIG picture.

Recognizing success as a "state of mind"

Success is an attitude, and not just a set of achievements or financial gain. If this were not the case, then every high achiever would consider themselves successful. But if fact, may rich, famous and accomplished people have material success but do not actually feel truly successful or fulfilled. Understand that success is not just found in outer things, but is located within yourself. Cultivate success as "state of mind" so that you stop chasing false goals and expectations, and start living your life focused on what matters to you.


  1. Think about what success means to you - be honest with yourself.
  2. Set time aside every day to focus on your values, and ensure that you remain true to them.
  3. Make the time to create a picture of your ideal life.
  4. Develop a positive attitude towards achieving success.
  5. Involve your family in the development of your vision.

Develop Your Career Goals

"If you don't know where you're going, how do you expect to get there?"

A goal can be defined as a target or something to strive for and action plans can help you to achieve your goals. Whether you consciously know it or not, you are continuously setting goals that determine how you act and how you spend your time.. It can also give you a sense of purpose, direction or meaning.

Benefits of Goal Setting:

Many benefits come from taking the time to consciously develop career and personal goals and goal setting can:

  • Assist you to focus on what you want in your life;
  • Assist you to establish priorities;
  • Improve your self image and build your confidence;
  • Provide direction that assist you in making decisions
  • Encourage awareness of your strengths;
  • Give you motivation -- a "motive for action".

A career goal can assist you in focusing on what you want in life. To be reachable, a career goal must be realistic, specific and meaningful to you. The more you understand yourself, your values, interests, strengths and needs, the easier it is to set achievable goals. It is also very important to consider the job market and labour trends when making choices.

"Set goals beyond your grasp, but within your reach."

Some tried and tested guidelines for effective goal setting are outlined below. When developing your goals, ask yourself the questions below.

Desirable?

  • Is this goal something I really want, not something I should or have to do?
  • Is this MY goal, not what someone else expectation of me?
  • Will I feel good after achieving my goal?

Conceivable?

  • Can I see myself reaching this goal?
  • Do I see many "roadblocks" along the way?
  • Have I thought about the steps involved in reaching my goal?

Believable?

  • Is my goal a firm decision? Am I committed to seeing it through?
  • Does my goal make sense?
  • Do I believe that I can reach this goal?

Achievable?

  • Is my goal realistic for who I am? My abilities? My values?
  • Can I accomplish this goal given my strengths and resources?
  • Is my goal set too high? Or too low?

Make Your Soft Skills Known

Soft skills are becoming increasingly important for accounting professionals, reports Emma Charnock, Regional Director of Hays in Hong Kong.

With the current quarter the most active of the year (Q1 2007) for accountancy & finance recruitment, demand for experienced staff is high. Yet despite the active market, employer requirements remain high and candidates must still do

everything they can to stand apart. In addition to technical knowledge, an increasingly common requirement is for candidates to demonstrate an ability to add value to the business.

The key way to do this is to demonstrate that you can hold your own in the corporate world. So rather than creating a CV that solely addresses your accounting technical skills, elaborate upon your operation and commercial skills. For example, have you completed process improvements, been part of system implementations or improvements, managed projects or secured new clients? Focus on what you have done to make a difference and consequently demonstrate your commercial acumen.

Bear in mind the key element employers are looking for is how you added value through these projects. It is not enough to simply state your financial or management accounting skills, or say you were involved in a system implementation. Instead, you need to demonstrate how you have added value in your role, in your organisation and through your involvement in projects.

Furthermore, it is essential to demonstrate your ability to liaise with clients and nurture a business relationship. Communication across departments, the management of teams, human resources and project skills are all viewed very highly by employers, and should be demonstrated accordingly on your CV and sought out in your current role to advance your career in the long term.

This change from a pure technical focus has come about through the evolution of accountants themselves. With an increase in candidates who can demonstrate a more commercial focus and who will get involved in process improvements, system implementations and project management while demonstrating increasing management skills, employers have begun to seek out this type of accountant. Consequently the accountant needs to hold their own and ensure their own development in a constantly evolving industry.

So if the opportunity arises, it is certainly advantageous to become involved in special projects, which provide the opportunity to learn and develop your skills. In terms of your long-term career objectives, it will certainly help to take every opportunity to become involved in the commercial aspect of the business - even if this is not a required function of your current role.

Good time management skills are also valued since an ability to meet deadlines is an ongoing requirement in financial cycles. Additionally, employers also look for candidates who can be a good team player, are innovative, and who possess a positive working attitude.

Source:Hays Hong Kong

GREAT ACHIEVEMENT IS BORN OF STRUGGLE

“Our strength grows out of our weakness” said Ralpoh Waldo Emerson. Not until we are pricked and stung and sorely shot at, awakens the indignation which arms itself with secret forces. Srife ans struggle can inspire you to overcome adversity and to propoel yourself to real achievement. View every struggle as an opportunity for personal growth. It is the struggle itself, not the result , that builds character. If you know you are right, stay the course even though the whole world seems to be against you and everyone you know wuestions your judgement. When you prevail, and you eventually will if you stick to the job - they will all tell you that they knew all along you could do it.

By Napoloen Hill

Let's start make money with google adsense

Google AdSense is a Pay-Per Click (PPC) service. Webmasters are paid a portion of the revenue which Google collects from advertisers each time a web site visitor clicks on an AdSense advertisement.
Each click may pay anywhere from a few cents to several dollars.

The basic formula for thinking about revenue from Google AdSense is:
Revenue = (Impressions * CTR * CPC)

The methods of increasing your revenue from Google AdSense are:

Increase Impressions
Increase Click-Through-Ratio (CTR)
Increase Cost-Per-Click (CPC)

Increase Impressions

The most basic method of increasing your number of impressions is to increase the traffic to your web site.

The topic of increasing traffic to your web site is beyond the scope of this article, and most likely something you are already working on.

One technique for increasing the number of Google AdSense impressions without an increase in traffic to your web site is to motivate your users to enable JavaScript. Google AdSense ads require JavaScript. Visitors to your website who do not have JavaScript enabled in their browsers will not see your Google AdSense ads.

But remember never click ads in your site by your self, Google machine know you and never pay you even your account will be ban if your do it continuesly.

So, where i can get google account?

You can register in http://www.google.com/adsense
Then your entered your identity and your web address. Remember your website must be support in adsense language. when your finish registered, you may waiting confirmation from google adsense to accept your account. its can be 1 or 2 day. If your lucky you can use google andsense to make your money

Good luck for u...

How to get money on the net

The easiest way of making money part time on the net is by joining an affiliate program. Affiliate program's are easy to join, once joined all you have to do is promote the program. You don't even have to deal with any after sales questions or problems as it is all taken care of by the program merchant's.

There are hundreds of affiliate programs that claim you can make $1000's of dollars a week using there system, and most of them do turn out to be false claims, while making $1000's of dollars a week is possible it is unlikely that you will do it in your first week or probably not even your first month.

If you want to make money part time then you need to pick a program and stick with it, all new business's either in the real world or on the net take time and effort to get going. They also require a little investment to get going but the trick there is nowing where to spend your money and where not to.

You also need to be making money from multiple streams, by this I mean more than one program. If you are spending your entire time promoting one program and that program suddenly changes its commission payments or even stops running you will be left with nothing.

Without a doubt the best system for making money part time on the net is the plug-in profits program. This program has been built be Stone Evens, Stone is responsible for helping more people start an internet business than anyone else on the net. With his system you sign up for six different affiliate programs these are success university, SFI, traffic swarm, empowerism, internet marketing centre (imc) and host4profit. All of which you can earn monthly commissions just by referring people to the plug-in profit system.

With his system you get a free money making website that is normally set up within 24 hours, you also get $1000's of dollars worth of free bonuses and one of the best training guides you will ever get. This guide alone will knock at least two years of your learning curve. Through the program you learn that there is no "big secret" to making money part time on the net it is just about knowing what works and applying them.

If you have no experience with affiliate programs then this is definitely the best place to take your first step, you get all the tools training and advice you need to start a profitable business that earns you money.

Beauty Is in the Eye of the Beholder

She was not beautiful.
Nothing about her was extraordinary.
Nothing about her made her stand out in a crowd.
She grew up in a family of six.
The eldest, she learnt responsibility at an early age.
As she grew stronger, and brighter,
She instilled a sort of light cheer to whomever she met.

She was not beautiful.
But she made others feel beautiful about themselves.
She meets a rebel boy who thinks he's all man.
Befriending him, she teaches him how to read,
A little boost the man needed to go to college.

They became friends fast and she fell,
Fast in love with her rugged, handsome student.
The "man" then finds himself in a dilemma
He soon found himself in love with a girl.
A girl so beautiful, she turned even the grouchiest men's head.
Her hair was a halo of light around her,
Her eyes the bluest blue of ocean.

Like an angel he tells his tutor
Like a beautiful angel.
The girl swallows a lump at her throat

She was not beautiful
She did not possess the heart of the one she loved
But she did not care.
As long as he was happy,
She would be or so she tried to.

She helped him write the most beautiful letter to his angel
All the time envisioning that it was she herself
Receiving those very letters.
And so the girl helped him choose the right words,
Buy the right gifts for his angel
His angel brought him much joy
And much pain to the girl who cried behind her smiles.
But that never stopped her from giving more
Than she will ever receive.

Then one day, all hell broke loose
The angel he loved left him for another man,
A richer, more successful man.
The boy was stunned
He was so hurt he did not speak for days
The girl went to him
He cried on her shoulder and she cried with him
He hurt and so did she.

Time went by.
And so the wounds heal.
The boy realizes something about his friend/tutor
He never realized before.
How her laughter sounded heavenly
Or how her smiles brightened up the darkest days.
Or simply how beautiful, yes beautiful she looked to him!

Beautiful.
This plain, simple girl was beautiful to him.
And he began to fall.
Fall so in love with this beautiful girl.

On one day, he picked up all his courage to see her.
He walked to her house, nervous ad fidgeting.
Running his thoughts over and over in his head.
He was going to tell her how beautiful she was to him.
He was going to tell her how wonderfully n love he was with her.
He knocked.
No one was home.

The next day he found out,
The beautiful girl he fell in love with had brain aneurysm
That put her into a coma.
The doctors were grim and the family decided to let her go.

One final time he got to see her.
He held her hand.
He stroked her hair,
And he cried for this beautiful girl.
He cried for he will never see her smile
Or hear her speak his name

He cried.
But it was too late.

The beautiful girl was buried and the heavens broke out
In a beautiful spring shower, a cry for their loss.
She was the most beautiful girl in the world.

Look around you.
Aren't there a lot of plain faces?
Take a good look
A real good look or you might miss out
On that beautiful person.

Forever.

Father's Gift

A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father hadpurchased the car.

Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible, with the young man's name embossed in gold. Angrily, he raised his voice to his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the Bible.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.

Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things. When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. His father had carefully underlined a verse,

Matt 7:11,
"And if ye, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your Heavenly father which is in heaven, give to those who ask Him?"

As he read those words, a car key dropped from the back of the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

Be Live

We lose the power of the moment because we're so rarely in it. We're reliving the past or speculating about the future. We continue to believe that tomorrow's the day when I'll be more capable, more wealthy, more fit and more loving. Meanwhile, I'm just putting in time, dreaming of better things but not making any concrete move to realize them.

When you find yourself thinking of the future or the past, bring your awareness into the present moment. Really experience how you feel and what’s happening around you, without judgment. If we can treasure each moment, our lives will be rich, no matter what we have accomplished.

so.. Take the concrete action like you have no tommorows